The other morning, I had the idea that it would be nice to surprise my husband with an apple fritter from the grocery store bakery.  He loves apple fritters!  Let all that you do be done with love.  ~I Corinthians 16:14 And so I walked in the store around 7:15 AM, on a mission for an apple fritter...or so I thought. As I entered, I passed an older man who was exiting the store, and I recognized him as someone I had met and chatted with in my driveway at our last couple garage sales over the years.  I couldn't recall his name, but I remembered his story--he was a full time care-giver for his wife who had dementia. As we passed, I met his eyes and offered up a cheery "hello".  He didn't have any cheer, but he returned the greeting as we walked our opposite directions. But when I pulled my head out of the doughnut case with a fritter in-hand, there he was again , in front of me in the aisle, with his back to me.  I felt a nudge in my heart to go , and so I d...